I deserve to be happy. I deserve to be successful. And so do you. Focus on what you want to see. You have a right to be who you want to be, to live the life you want to live, to love the things you want to love. You don't have to think about anything else but this. You can do it.
Setting up a lifestyle that challenges you to be honest is the best thing you can do. Eliminating anything that doesn't have to do with this goal is the best thing you can do. Choosing to focus on this goal, with all of you intent, passion and drive and is the best thing you can do.
Be the best you can be. Do the best you can do. Believe in the best. Own it. You deserve this lifetime. How are you going to spend it? This is your time now. Go boldly.